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Let them go with a smile…

Life goes on and so do we, after the chances we miss, the risks we take and fail, the people who come our way just to hurt us and leave, it’s all good, even if they leave a scar, it would be all good if you just let them go with a smile from your heart…

Fear, this feeling that makes us feel weak, sometimes paralyzes us and won’t allow us to move forward, always backward…. We fear from flying or taking the risks but do we really fear from flying or the reality we are scared from falling down?  Any chance we miss, the hesitation crosses our mind, bad ideas flow towards our imagination, and one question is to ask: “Are we scared of taking those chances or  is the real fear about missing them? “.

Life goes on if we just let all what happens to us go with a smile, the smile won’t heal but it gives us hope to move forward, all the tears we cry endlessly, it hurts our eyes but also purifies our heart and soul. It gives us new look towards certain things or certain people we meet… Everything happens for a reason… The people who come to our path from nowhere, some come for a very short time and leave after they cause a huge heartache; and those who become a big part of our lives for years, they just let us down for no reason, life changes them; and those who swear nothing will set us apart, they would be the first to betray the friendship by being the first to push us down. We better let them all go with a smile, never regret knowing them.

How many times we ask why? But do we truly want to know the answers?? We worry about knowing the truth because sometimes behind every truth there is a mask that will fall down from a face we used to love … behind every word why? There is a truth that will be revealed, behind every question we ask why? The reality of those who we used to miss might show , a smile might fade away with those who promised to come back someday, but never did… Maybe it’s better to keep asking why? Without knowing the reason, though we keep wondering, but it’s better to let it go with a smile…

 God sends a lesson with every one of them to make us learn whom we should trust, and to whom we should really give other chances, and the what’s more that God teaches us through them, is the great lesson of “Forgiveness”. Never have hard feelings towards those who caused you heartaches. Forgive them, let them go with a smile from your heart, and have faith that God will send you the right people at the right time…

Life is full of surprises, not all of the them are happy ones, sometimes nature surprises us with crisis, but after that we stand up and fix the damages, we move forward, but again nature might surprise us with yet another crisis, a hurricane or another earth quake, millions of people lose their lives in those crisis, but it’s a test for other millions of people to accept what they lost and to start over… The question is: “How much do we have faith in God to thank him and be ready to let it go with a smile?” Every day is a new chance we take, a new risk we should be ready to make, we should accept if we missed those chances, or failed in the risks we took. In every day, a new person comes our way; we should expect that those people who we are meeting today came for a reason. Never regret what you face in your daily life, if we are wise enough, we should be ready to accept it all with an open heart…

Life goes on, and so do we… The chances we missed, the risks we were afraid to make, the people who came and left without a trace, only scars to remind us to never repeat the same mistakes again…. Life goes on… It would be all good if you just believed in God and let it go with a smile from your heart…



June 13, 2010 - Posted by | emotions, English, fear, forgiveness, friendship, Hate, Letters, Life, Love, Memories, Nature, news, others, Past, Peace, silence, Smile, Speak, Thought, Trust, unfaithful, USA, Violence, Words


  1. […] Let them go with a smile… June 2010 14 comments 4 […]

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  2. Hey jihan
    i always loved your writing its always speaking from deep down inside your heart. Although i want to comment on your new article that sometimes i cant accept things to let go with just a smile. I mean sometimes things are just too much to bear and you need to know the truth because these ppl no matter how small they contributed to our lives they could always have a large effect on us and their actions have no explanation. You cant just let it slip your curiosity would kill you. You would definitely want an explanation for their actions. Don’t you agree?

    Comment by Ali | June 15, 2010 | Reply

    • Hey Ali, thanks for your comment I really appreciate it…:)
      As for your question if I agree… Well,what I’m trying to say through my article, is that sometimes we want to keep a nice picture of those who we truly loved in our mind, that’s why we prefer not to know the facts behind the reason that make them hurt us , if they were honest with us they should be clear and have the courage to face us, not to run away.. No one hurt those who care about,no matter what.. Yes the curiosity would kill us to know the reason, but if you asked yourself, why they would do that since you were very good & faithful friend/lover ,you should act in a wise way and ask your self: ” Are they worth your concern and your pain??
      If they don’t want to give you the reason, would you spend your life asking why? or chasing them???… It’s so hard to let them go with a smile from your heart, but if you didn’t do that, you will keep living the rest of your life wondering why they did that? Simply you would be a prisoner of your doubts and in the ” what if” . Do you prefer to forgive them & let them go with a smile from your heart or to keep waiting for them with the tears from your broken heart???? I will let you answer this question..:D

      Thank you for visiting my blog always..:)

      Comment by Jinan Zeidan | June 16, 2010 | Reply

  3. Jinan,

    Thanks so much for the beautiful writing! Your words are both comforting and inspirational. Please keep writing!

    With Gratitude,

    Comment by Doris | June 15, 2010 | Reply

    • You welcome Doris, I really appreciate your comment and your visits to my blog..:)

      Comment by Jinan Zeidan | June 17, 2010 | Reply

  4. Hi Jinan, beautiful words and so wise. To let go with a smile and forgive is not easy but with God by our side, guiding us and helping us through the difficult times it can be achieved. And once we do let go and forgive the feeling is one of release and so uplifting. Letting go with a smile and forgiving allows our hearts to embrace and accept all other miracles and blessings coming our way. Thank you from my heart with a smile for your gifts which you choose to share with us. God bless and keep you in His tender loving care always. xxx

    Comment by Gabby | June 14, 2010 | Reply

  5. A lovely post Jinan, you sure have gone through pain and heartache like most of us, which is part of normal life.
    But to come out wise and spread that wisdom is a great upward learning curve, and I am so proud to be on this journey with you through Glog.
    I had to put up with great resistance from the rest of my family to stand by my decision to let go, when I decided on my divorce 2 years ago, after a 15 year separation. Today everyone including my mother in law have accepted it and hopefully forgiven me, just as I have forgiven my ex-husband from my heart, and we have all moved on.
    Letting go with tears in the norm, letting go with a smile is a tough one :).
    Love & Light

    Comment by Goolcher Navdar | June 14, 2010 | Reply

  6. Jinan its awesome just as Anita said.
    i just loved it .its as if you were in my heart and read what was going through my mond and put it in this lovely blog.

    Comment by joumana | June 13, 2010 | Reply

    • Joumana….. So glad to see you visiting my blog… THANK YOU!!!!! 😀

      Comment by Jinan Zeidan | June 14, 2010 | Reply

  7. Awesome Jinan!
    I’m so gald I took the time to follow teh linek someone posted on GratitudeLog and read your blog! The refrain “let them go with a smile from your heart” really struck home! I’ve been struggeling with some huge dissapointments in teh last few months and it had litteraly made me sick (physically). I had asked the Creator for help…just this morning…and here I am reading your blog…it’s like you’re the Angel that the Creator sent me to help me heal! Keep writting beautiful soul you are making a difference in the world!

    Comment by Anita | June 13, 2010 | Reply

    • WOW!!!!! your comment on here really touched my heart deeply… I’m so happy to know that my writing helped you in someway… I believe that the more we believe in God and accept what he’s sending to us, the more things would be just great, even if it seems to be painful sometimes…It’s all going to be good if you just let it go with a smile and keep believing that God is always there for you…

      Thank you Anita for your lovely comment…:)

      Comment by Jinan Zeidan | June 14, 2010 | Reply

  8. This is Beautiful Jinan Love is All and to forgive with all your heart is so nurturing for your soul . You write beautifully such a Blessing to all around you Much Love to you . Blessings & Miracles Brenda McAleer

    Comment by Brenda McAleer | June 13, 2010 | Reply

    • Thank you so much Brenda… I’m glad you love my writing.. Blessings~~~~ Love to you..:)

      Comment by Jinan Zeidan | June 14, 2010 | Reply

  9. Jinan, this is so beautiful…’letting go with a smile from your heart’ says so much… not always easy to do right away, it can take some time, but it eases the pain when you do… Thank you for your sweet and tender heart…..

    Much Love and gratitude as always…Gill xXx

    Comment by Gill | June 13, 2010 | Reply

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